Terms

Last updated: 15 November 2026

Who I am

Fathers' Wars is run by Dritan Mata, also known as Photius, from Athens, Greece. Contact: contact@fatherswars.com. In these terms, "I" means me and "you" means the father who applies to work with me or uses this site.

What this is

Fathers' Wars is personal one-to-one support for fathers of small children who want to break daily loops such as sugar, the phone, cigarettes or alcohol. I talk from my own experience of these wars. I tell you what worked for me and help you build your own plan and keep it.

What this is not

I am not a doctor, a therapist, a dietitian or a lawyer. This is not medical, psychological, legal or financial advice, and it is not treatment. If you have a medical condition, take medication, or have a serious addiction, see a doctor or another qualified professional before you change your food, exercise, smoking or drinking, and keep seeing them. If you are in crisis or thinking of harming yourself or anyone else, call 112 or your local emergency number now.

No promised results

I do not promise any result. My own story is mine. Your results depend on you, your health and your life. I do my part honestly. You are responsible for the decisions you make about your own body and life.

Founding spots

There are three founding spots. The founding price is 300 euros for each of the first three fathers. Sending an application does not give you a spot and does not create a contract. I read every application myself. A spot is confirmed only after we have talked, and either of us can say no before then.

Price and payment

Price and payment are agreed directly between us, in euros, before the support starts. The price, any taxes and what you get are stated clearly before you pay. Nothing is charged through this website.

Your right to withdraw

If you are a consumer in the EU, you have the right to withdraw from a distance contract within 14 days, without giving a reason, under Greek consumer law (Law 2251/1994) and EU law. To withdraw, write to contact@fatherswars.com and say clearly that you withdraw. I will confirm that I received your message. If you ask me to start the support within the 14 days, you pay a fair share for what I have already delivered up to the moment you tell me you withdraw. If we have both agreed in writing, before the support started, that it is fully delivered inside the 14 days, and you have confirmed that you lose the right to withdraw once it is fully delivered, then that rule applies. The rest of your consumer rights stay as they are.

What I ask of you

• You are an adult, 18 or older.
• You give me true information.
• You tell me honestly when something does not work or when you want to stop.
• You see a doctor for anything medical.

What you tell me

What you tell me in our conversations stays between us. I do not share it, except where the law requires me to, or where someone is in immediate danger. How I handle your personal data is described on the Privacy page.

The free group

The free group on Skool is run on Skool, a separate platform with its own rules and privacy policy. What members post is their own. Be respectful, and do not post anything that attacks other people.

This website

The text on this site, including the blog, is mine. You may share a link. Please do not copy the text and publish it as your own without asking me. I do my best to keep the site correct and available, but I do not promise it is always error-free or online.

My responsibility

I do not exclude or limit liability where the law does not allow it, including for intent or gross negligence, or for harm to life, body or health caused by my fault. Outside of that, my responsibility is limited to what you paid me for the support. This does not take away any consumer right you have by law.

Changes

I may change these terms. If I do, the date at the top changes. A change does not affect support you already paid for under the earlier terms.

Law and disputes

Greek law applies. Disputes go to the competent courts in Greece, unless mandatory consumer law gives you the right to go to the courts where you live. If you are a consumer and we cannot solve a problem together, you can also ask an approved consumer dispute resolution body, such as the Hellenic Consumer Ombudsman (consumer-ombudsman.gr). Please write to me first at contact@fatherswars.com.